An Introduction to being Volleyball Parents
The character of the sports parent directly influences their child athlete. Through personal beliefs, prejudices and distinctive personality traits, parents teach their children values providing both indirect and direct influence on the child’s attitude, work ethic and passion for the game.
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Whether your child is already playing volleyball, passionate about the game or considering to take up the sport, you want to be encouraging, supportive and enthusiastic about their decision as volleyball parents.
Being a parent is challenging yet a rewarding experience and if you become a volleyball parent, you’ll have to consider many other aspects apart from a mom/dad.
In this post, we’ll be looking at what it takes to being volleyball parents, critical things to consider if you want to be the best volleyball parents and much more.
So without further delay, let’s get started!
Did you know? Most parents choose a volleyball coach for their child through personal experience and word of mouth. Also, characteristics such as promoting sportsmanship among players, increasing a child’s chances of playing at a higher level and fair and honest in dealing with players are also plays a crucial role in the final decision.
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Introduction to Being Volleyball Parents
What it Takes to being Volleyball Parents?
The first and the best thing to being volleyball parents is to understand and love the game. Even if you’ve never played the game, have no idea
on how it’s played, or you’ve never seen a volleyball game in your life, taking active steps to learn the sport and developing a liking for it is the crucial first step to being a volleyball parent.
I am sure your child will notice your efforts and feel inspired every day to do well in the sport.
Apart from this, there are many things you need to incorporate in order to be the best volleyball parent and trust me, you’ll learn them along the journey. Taking the first step is the toughest one and if you can conquer that, you are well on your way to becoming a wonderful volleyball parent!
Critical Things to Consider If you want to be the Best Volleyball Parents
When you are aspiring to become the best volleyball parents, you need to take into consideration many subtle aspects of the game and teach it to your kid. That way, you’ll also learn and become the best volleyball parents. In the upcoming sections, I’ll talk about some of the crucial things you need to teach your child as volleyball parents.
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Sportsmanship
If you want your child to be remembered for one thing around their team circle, then it should undoubtedly be for their sportsmanship. Why is it so? good question!
We all know that winning and losing are part of playing sports and even if your child’s team wins or loses a match and your kid taking the time to appreciate their opponents, that simple gesture can serve as a starting point for the development of some lifelong friendships.
Apart from that, good sportsmanship earns respect for your child among their team members.
Raising a Competitive and Compassionate Player
Hard work, mental toughness and personal achievements are pretty important to be considered as a good volleyball player. There is no doubt about that. However, you need to teach your child how to be compassionate and at the same time competitive on a volleyball court. These 2 traits must be developed and nurtured in your child from a very young age.
In the list below, I’ll share some of the key characteristics of a compassionate and competitive athlete. I hope it’ll serve you as a starting point.
- Paying attention to and looking after the team mates on and off the field.
- Treating every person involved in the game with respect.
- Always lending a helping hand to their team mates and the other people involved in the game when needed.
- Making sure that the team members provide their best effort at all situations.
- Being a true team player at all times.
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Providing Positive Support
Your child works hard to become the best volleyball player in their team. You fully aware of that as a parent. To keep them motivated and strive for excellence in the sport they love, the simple yet effective measure you can take is to provide positive support. I am sure many things would be going through your child’s mind starting from getting to know their team members, the happenings of the day with regards to the performance, to analyzing and figuring out ways to improve their game the next time and a trillion other things.
Showing your frustration and anxiety at that moment won’t help solve the problem if they had a bad day. Instead, offering a reassuring hand and trying to find a solution together will be the ideal option. By no means it’s easy. but it’ll strengthen the bond with your child and they’ll start trusting you more.
Taking a Stance on Shelling Out Public Criticism
If I have to say 2 words on shelling out public criticism about players, coaches, referees and about your child’s performance, those would be, PLEASE DON’T. Shelling out public criticism won’t work at any time and when the emotions are high such as during and after the match, it’ll ruin the relationship between all parties involved.
Everybody is trying to do their job as best as they can and understanding this critical factor will aid you to be empathetic.
You can definitely give your views, tips, techniques and opinions about a particular player, referee or the match as a whole in private to your child’s team coach. This’ll reduce unnecessary tension and the coach will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Set an Example with Your Actions
What I mean by setting an example is that following the rules set particularly for the tournament, not yelling and shouting excessively during the match, shouting unproductive,
Hurtful and profane stuff in the heat of the moment, doing the forbidden things like drinking and smoking within the premises of the match and so on. We all know how distressing it’d be for everybody when a parent does these things. By completely avoiding these, you are setting a positive example for everybody to follow. So your child will be thankful to you if you aren’t resorting to them.
Developing the Right Attitude During and After the Game
This is crucial. Playing and watching volleyball should be fun-filled and the attitude in the spectators area can greatly affect the overall mood, morale and success of a team. Rather than adopting a mentality of going to a war, why not think of the good times you’ll have with your child before, during and after the match and model the behavior accordingly?
Words of Wisdom from other Volleyball Parents
Here are some of the words of wisdom from other volleyball parents to inspire you.
If the kid seems to love the sport, then put your energy and resources into supporting them.
Parents should be able to enjoy the sport themselves as well as to see their child out there playing and excelling. Maybe they don’t play all the time but it is important to still be supportive and encouraging.
Support your kids, help them and let them grow into the sport.
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why It is Important to be the Good Volleyball Parents?
Here are some critical reasons on why you need to be the good volleyball parent in my experience of playing the sport for 6+ years.
- You’ll communicate effectively and efficiently with both your child and their coach.
- When there is a proper explanation, you’ll respect the decision of the coach even if it isn’t in favor of your child.
- You’ll support, help and encourage your child to develop and excel in their volleyball skills.
- You’ll find creative ways to help the team.
- You’ll support other parents and help them whenever possible.
FAQs on being Volleyball Parents
How can I Help My Son/Daughter Get Better at Volleyball?
- First of all, I am so happy that your child has gotten into volleyball and you are looking for ways to improve their skills and make them succeed in the sport.
- Although making your son/daughter better in volleyball depends on various factors, the first thing you need to ensure is that they get a good coach.
- The second thing you can do is to encourage your child to work hard on their volleyball skills regularly and maintain the passion for the sport.
- Third, understand that you have a major role to play in the success of your kid in volleyball and work accordingly. This’d mean a lot to your son/daughter and they’ll do whatever it takes to make you proud.
- Help your child define the goals for the sport.
- I am fully aware that as a parent, you need to make many other pieces come together in order to make your child successful in volleyball, but these can be a great starting point.
How can I be a Good Volleyball Parent?
Here are some ways to be a good volleyball parent.
- Encourage healthy competition. Teach your child that playing sport is not always about winning and losing.
- Be a positive volleyball parent to your child. I love to watch you play is a powerful phrase that you can utilize more often.
- Support your child’s coach. Coaches are there for a reason and supporting all the reasonable decisions and calls will have multitude of benefits for both you and your child in the long run.
- Encourage ever learning and growth mindset in your child. Not all the time your child will perform at their best and having a learning and growth mindset will aid him/her to move beyond the experience and focus on the next thing.
What does a Team Parent do for Volleyball?
Here are some of the things team parents do for volleyball.
- Assisting coaches with the administrative tasks of the volleyball team.
- Having all the contact details of the team players and their parents handy.
- Coordinating snack and food related aspects during match and tournament days.
- Ensuring the safety of all team members and reporting to the coach if there is any injury to the player.
Conclusion
Now that you have an overall understanding of being volleyball parents, it is time to put the knowledge in practice.
Volleyball is a team sport and being a great volleyball parents will go a long way in helping your child succeed in the sport.
What would you like to add to this post?
What good qualities that you’ve seen other volleyball parents exhibit?
Share your thoughts and ideas in the comments section below!
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Thanks for this intro to becoming volleyball parents! It is always helpful to be prepared.
Hi Kayla Bowers, thanks for your comment. I totally agree on being prepared!
Thanks so much for these tips for volleyball parents. I love that you’ve balanced competitiveness with compassion.
Hi Crysti, thanks for your comment. It is pretty important in my opinion.
As a parent new to the world of volleyball, this introduction is precisely what’s needed! It’s so helpful to understand the basics of being a supportive volleyball parent. Thank you for the insights!
Hi Catherine Kay, thanks for your encouraging comment. Glad you found this post helpful.
Thank you for these tips on how to be a good volleyball parent. Although I have never been the parent of a volleyball player, I think many of these tips could apply to parents of athletes in any sport. Great thoughts!
Hi Lisa, thanks for your encouraging comment. Glad you found this post helpful.
It is so important to take an interest and understand the hobbies your children have! Thank you for sharing this.
Hi Jupiter Hadley, thanks for your comment. I completely agree with your points!
Great guide for volleyball parents! Your tips on supporting and encouraging players are really helpful. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Lavanda, thanks for your comment. Glad you found this post helpful for volleyball parents.
Thanks so much for sharing this informative post about Volleyball. I remember my niece playing Volleyball and she loved it. I love that your insight about Volleyball can be implemented in any sport!
Hi LisaLisa, thanks for your comment. Glad you founnd this post helpful. Very happy to know that your niece played volleyball and she loved it.
Volley ball looks like such a fun sport, but I’m not very athletic. It’s still so fun to watch though. I remember watching the girls’ games in high school.
Hi Laurel, thanks for your comment. Glad to know that you love watching volleyball and I agree that it is a fun sport to play.
Thanks so much for sharing, I don’t have kids but my cousin children plays volleyball, I’ll definitely share this with them
Hi Candy, thanks for your comment. Glad to know that your cousin’s children play volleyball. Convey my best wishes to them!
My daughter just started volleyball and this post has got good advice for parents. thank you. I will keep coming back.
Hi Monika Harrison, thanks for your comment. Glad you found this post helpful. Very happy to know that your daughter started playing volleyball. Convey my best wishes to her!
Great post to educate parents on what to expect and the rules as parents usually have no idea when their child starts a new sport
Hi Samantha Donnelly, thanks for your comment. Glad you found this post helpful for volleyball parents.
Excellent insights! I really enjoyed reading this. Understanding and loving the game is such a vital first step to becoming great volleyball parents. It’s clear that putting in the effort to learn and support your child will not only inspire them but also strengthen your bond. You’ve highlighted some key aspects that make this journey truly rewarding.
Hi Ann, thanks for your wonderful and encouraging comment. Glad you found this post helpful for volleyball parents. I completely agree with your points!
These are great tips for parents. They apply for all sports and athletes.
Hi Jacqie Naya, thank you very much!
Sportsmanship is a huge one for sure!!! I see a lot of parents lose their minds in football or basketball games lol…
Hi Karen, thanks for your comment. I completely agree with your point on sportsmanship.
Sportsmanship is first and foremost for any sports parent. Support your kids, but don’t sideline coach, and DEFINITELY don’t make a scene. I’ve seen that more often than I’d like.
Hi Ben, thanks for your insightful comment. I completely agree with your points!
Loved this post. I completely agree about public criticism. It doesn’t help in the slightest and really isn’t needed at all!
Hi Kira, Thanks a lot for your thoughtful comment. Apart from your valuable point on public criticism, it does strain the relationship between all parties involved and it takes a significant effort to repair the damage.
Every sport has its unique features. But what unites them all is camaraderie among players and their parents.
Hi Celebrate Woman Today, thanks for your valuable comment. I totally agree that the uniting factor between sports players and their parent’s is camaraderie for sure.
Your practical advice on positive support, avoiding public criticism, and setting an example with our actions is spot on.
Hi Lavanda Michelle, thank you so very much!
We are basketball parents. Seems to me there are quite a few similarities. 🙂
Hi Rosey, thanks for your comment. Glad you found some similarities between being parents of a couple of different sports. Very happy to know that you are a basketball parent.
These are relevant tips for any parent new to the sports world. Thank you for sharing! I think a lot of parents need to read this 🙂
Hi Tammy, thank you very much for your encouraging comment. Very happy to know that you found the tips in this post helpful for new sports parents.
Thank you for the insightful blog post! It’s great to see your dedication to providing valuable information for volleyball parents. The reminder about affiliate links is appreciated, and it’s wonderful to know that supporting your work is just a click away. As a parent navigating the world of youth sports, your tips on being encouraging, supportive, and enthusiastic resonate well. Looking forward to more engaging content from Wonder of Volleyball!
Hi Sue-Tanya Mchorgh, thank you very much for your encouraging comment. Glad you found the tips in this post helpful.
Great post! I don’t know a ton about volleyball so this post is really helpful.
Hi Luna S, thanks for your comment. Glad you found the tips in this post helpful.
I always learn so many things from your posts. I need this as my sister is playing volleyball and I’m her guardian.
Hi Marie Cris Angeles, thanks a million for your encouraging comment. Very happy that your sister plays volleyball. Wish her my hearty best wishes!
I enjoyed watching volleyball game. You have wonderfully connected the sportsmanship of the game with parenting.
Hi Indu, thanks for your comment. Glad to know that you enjoy watching volleyball matches.
Thank you for always sharing really useful posts about Volleyball, there is so much great information here. Asha
Hi Yeah Lifestyle, thanks a lot for your encouraging comment. Glad you find the tips in the posts helpful and informative.
Sportsmanship and compassion are always first on my list when it comes to children playing any team sport. That goes for the kids AND the parents.
Hi Beth, thanks for your valuable comment. I totally agree with you. Sportsmanship and being compassionate are the benchmark of a truly best team sports player.
I used to play in junior high, this is a great post!
Hi Selene, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post helpful. Very happpy to know that you’ve played volleyball in junior high school days!
Thanks for this Hari! I don’t have kids but I someone whose child loves volleyball, I sure would share this with them!
Hi Saviour, thanks for your appreciative comment. Glad you’ve found this post valuable enough to share it with a parent who has a volleyball loving kid.
Great post. I totally agree about public criticism. It doesn’t help in the slightest.
Hi John Rowe, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve resonated with the ideas in this post.
Played volleyball in high school, love this. Great resources.
Hi Tina, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post helpful. Very happy to know that you played volleyball in your high school days.
Wow this is so helpful as my daughter just started volleyball at her highschool. Thanks!!
Hi Maxine, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post helpful. Very happy to know that your daughter just got started playing volleyball. Convey my best wishes to her!
Great read, I played volleyball in HS & I can relate to the sportsmanship and team building is so important.
Thank you!
Hi Mia, thanks for your comment. Very happy to know that you’ve played volleyball during your high school days. Glad you’ve found this post useful.
So many great points here! Sportsmanship and positive support stood out to me. This also relates to many other sports. Thank you for writing this.
Hi Lindsey, thanks for your comment. Glad that you’ve found this post useful and relatable.
I played volleyball a little in gym at school and joined a league once but didn’t stick with it. Fun sport to be involved in!
Hi Tracy McHugh, thanks for your comment. Glad to know that you played volleyball during your school days. Completely agree that volleyball is a fun sport to be in!
Excellent information on supporting our children in a sport such as volleyball. The coaches can’t do it alone and it certainly helps our relationship with our children.
Hi Stephanie, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found the information present in this article valuable. I completely agree that the coaches can’t do it alone and when we support our children, our relationship with them strengthens significantly.
I remember volleyball was the last event clinched a medal for the US in the last Olympics. What a great sport.
Hi Melissa, thanks for your comment. Volleyball is truly an awesome sport.
Such great advice for fellow volleyball (or any sport) parents! I’m sure this will be helpful to many. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Max Ethan, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post helpful. Also, thanks for your encouraging words.
Such a valuable post! volleyball (or any sport) parents! I’m sure this will be helpful to many. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Michael james, thanks for your comment and kind words about this post. Glad you’ve found it helpful!
Hi, thanks for sharing this. Such a valuable post! It came at the right time as my daughter would like to start playing volleyball. Lots of mindful insights that can be applied to any sport in general.
Hi Francesca, thank you so much for your comment. Glad that you’ve found this post helpful. Very happy to know that your daughter is thinking to start playing volleyball. I agree that the info in this post can be applied to all sports parents. All the very best to your daughter!
Volleyball is one of the most team-oriented sports out there. One player can’t win the match on their own, so learning to put faith into your teammates and giving the best effort possible will ensure the most success.I’m sure this will be helpful to many. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Afaq, thank you so much for your valuable comment. Glad that you’ve found this post helpful. Thanks once again for your encouraging words. I also believe that the info will be helpful for many people!
Such great advice for fellow volleyball (or any sport) parents! I’m sure this will be helpful to many. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Jenna, thank you so much for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post to be informative and helpful for sports parents.
That’s so valuable for parents whose children want to take on a sport, not only volleyball. My cousin is a footballer, so I know it wasn’t always easy for the family, but we often don’t see what’s behind it. Thanks for sharing!
Hi Smiley, thanks for your comment. Glad you’ve found this post useful. I completely agree that the info present in this post can be utilized by parents whose children want to take up any sport, not only volleyball. Happy to hear that your cousin is a footballer. All the very best to him/her!